Marriage is the process by which two people make their relationship public, official, and permanent. It is the joining of two people in a bond that putatively lasts until death, but in practice is increasingly cut short by divorce. Of course, over the course of a relationship that can last as many as seven or eight decades, a lot happens.
Personalities change, bodies age, and romantic love waxes and wanes. And no marriage is free of conflict. What enables a couple to endure is how they handle that conflict.
In an arranged marriage, the girl is not marrying you for your Intelligence, or kindness, or for your good hearted nature, Good lucks to certain extent maybe, but majorly to a lifestyle you are capable of providing her. No girl in her right mind can know what kind of guy you are after meeting you twice and speaking with you couple of times on phone.
It is a decision taken by the girl's parents, that the chosen groom will look after their princess of a daughter in the way they seem is suitable to her, her lifestyle, their standing in the society and yada yada yada. You are meant to be the provider of the expected lifestyle.
So get ready for a life of emotional arm twisting if you want to go ahead.
You are responsible for your happiness first, and sacrificing that for a life full of sorrow is not advised unless you are specifically looking for it.
It is a decision taken by the girl's parents, that the chosen groom will look after their princess of a daughter in the way they seem is suitable to her, her lifestyle, their standing in the society and yada yada yada. You are meant to be the provider of the expected lifestyle.
So get ready for a life of emotional arm twisting if you want to go ahead.
You are responsible for your happiness first, and sacrificing that for a life full of sorrow is not advised unless you are specifically looking for it.
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